How Parents Can Support Their Child's Transition To School
Starting school is a big milestone – not just for children, but for families too. It’s exciting, but it can also feel a little overwhelming as you wonder if your child is “ready.” The truth is, readiness looks different for every child, and there’s no checklist they need to tick off perfectly before the first day. What you can do is help your child feel comfortable, capable, and confident by building on everyday skills at home and making connections with their new school community.
Consider these ideas below;
1. Understand Your Child’s Needs
Create a simple sensory profile: note what helps your child stay calm, what may trigger overwhelm, and what motivates them.
Share their strengths and interests with the school so teachers can connect with your child from the start.
2. Build Everyday Independence
Toilet train your child in advance and practice toileting routines. Locate public toilets so your child can practice turning the lock on a cubicle or using the urinal.
Encourage eating from a lunchbox or with a placemat to mimic school settings.
Support pencil grip with drawing, colouring, or fun fine motor activities (playdough, pegs, threading).
3. Connect with the School
Begin enrolment by May of the year prior to school beginning. Either online through your local schools wesbtie or by visiting the front office for a paper enrolmnet.
Meet with the school early and ask questions about routines, supports, and expectations.
Attend orientation sessions so your child becomes familiar with classrooms, playgrounds, and teachers.
4. Put Supports in Place Early
Apply for any learning, health, or wellbeing supports your child might need well before the school year begins.
5. Use Visuals and Social Stories
Create a simple picture schedule of the school day.
Read social stories about starting school or roleplay common routines (lining up, putting on a hat, carrying a bag).
Remember, children don’t need to have everything “perfect” before starting school. Schools expect to support children as they grow. The most important thing you can do is help your child feel safe, confident, and excited about this next big step.
